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Hey there I was wondering about some after care tips for anal sex. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we tried anal sex last night. We used lots of lube, and he was very turned on he did cum in me. Now I am wondering if it’s going to do anything to me. I have been to the bathroom a few times and it feels as if it’s cleaning itself all out. I was just wondering because I am getting mixed answers from every website I visit.... And when is the safe to try anal again after your first time? Can you go right back into it if there is no pain… or should you wait in case you need inside healing?

I have high blood pressure and take medicine daily. It is under control, but can’t get & maintain full erection. Dr. is not worried says this just happens. Have any helpful ideas for me.

DOES A PIERCED TONGUE GIVE MEN MORE PLEASURE WITH ORAL SEX? AND IF SO WHAT KIND OF RING?

Hey there I was wondering about some after care tips for anal sex. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we tried anal sex last night. We used lots of lube, and he was very turned on he did cum in me. Now I am wondering if it’s going to do anything to me. I have been to the bathroom a few times and it feels as if it’s cleaning itself all out. I was just wondering because I am getting mixed answers from every website I visit.... And when is the safe to try anal again after your first time? Can you go right back into it if there is no pain… or should you wait in case you need inside healing?

Before we had kids my wife and I experimented with anal sex briefly. After the birth of our first child she developed a hemorrhoid thus making anal very uncomfortable for her. Now both of us would really like to start exploring anal once again. Is there anyway she can rid herself from being uncomfortable?

What is a good toy for a man to use for anal sex?

Does Xandria still sell audio cassette tapes of sexy stories and educational information covering various subjects? If not, where can you get them.

I have an interesting problem... I have recently started to become intimate with a man I have been seeing... and here in lies the problem. I have always been one that enjoys taking care of my partner first (I am a female) either with oral stimulation which he loves and tactile stimulation which he also loves... problem is he has an ED problem and uses Cavajet, but that medication can only be used at a max 3 times a week and we enjoy sex daily.... He has never NOT satisfied me but I want sometimes to do more for him. He is a very giving and a wonderful, kind, and considerate man those women have thrown aside because of his problem.... What can I do as a loving partner to make the experience more wonderful for him. I verbally encourage and praise him when he makes love to me and these women have no idea what a gem they have pushed away. I have never had anyone have sexual relations with me that is so concerned with MY satisfaction. I just want to be able to do more for him.... he says he is satisfied but I want to do little things, sexual things, intimate things, erotic things, that tells him he is terrific in all ways.... The ED problem is a physical thing verified by an Urologist, but I am suspecting the premature ejaculation might be from previous bad relationships with women that couldn't care less except for their satisfaction.... HELP me please, as I do love this man... and want him to experience joy beyond belief...

A friend told me she uses a clitoral stimulant cream during the day as a "pick me up." She says she doesn't exactly climax, but the tingle lasts a while and can be relaxing. She said she started by using a cream for nipple stimulation. I was very curious. I have several toys and am a self-claiming masturbation enthusiast. I love the thought of rubbing some on at lunch and going back to work with a tingle on a bad day. Is this a possibility?

Is there away to make ones cum taste sweeter and less salty for his gal? Also, how do you produce a larger amount? I am a diabetic and I love having sex but have some problems with it being too salty tasting and very little amount at a time. I would appreciate any help in this if possible as I love my GF very much and would like to make her happy. I always make her cum but myself it takes like 4 hrs before I cum and then only a little is there a reason for this? Is this normal?

Hey there I was wondering about some after care tips for anal sex. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we tried anal sex last night. We used lots of lube, and he was very turned on he did cum in me. Now I am wondering if it’s going to do anything to me. I have been to the bathroom a few times and it feels as if it’s cleaning itself all out. I was just wondering because I am getting mixed answers from every website I visit.... And when is the safe to try anal again after your first time? Can you go right back into it if there is no pain… or should you wait in case you need inside healing?

My boyfriend has a 7 year old daughter that we have every other weekend. I've noticed on occasion (when she was even 6) that when I was running bath water for her, I would walk in and she would move suddenly from under the running water. I didn't really think anything about it until the other day when I took her to the pool and then she got in the jacuzzi. I was lying out and casually keeping an eye on her and I noticed her kneeling in front of the jet, eyes shut, and the look on her face was, well orgasmic, should I say. Is this normal for a 6/7 yr old to be doing. I don't remember exploring myself until my breast started growing, about 10 or 11 yrs old. I also don't remember my own daughter doing these things. Could it be something she saw her older half-sister do, (10 yrs. older than her and sexually active from the age of 14) and decided to try it? Of course and liked the sensation. Are we going to have a sensually/sexually active child on our hands? I mentioned it to my boyfriend, what I saw, and he just about wigged out on me. I had to keep him from freaking out on me that his "little girl" is growing up. One of us still goes in and washes her hair for her, because it is long. I've told him she is now getting to old for him to be doing things like that for her, society looks down on single dad caring for their daughters. Anyway, I just am unsure of how to proceed. I grew up in a strictly no talking about sex family. My parents showed affection in front of us, by kissing and holding hands, but heaven forbid you talk about sex. I didn't even masturbate until I met my boyfriend now and I was 44 yrs. old. I never used a vibrator or anything. But I am a very sensual and tactile person. I love the feel of the warm sun on my nipples, etc. And I was very open with my children and discussed everything with them which they had questions. I'm not shocked by this, but I am surprised because of how young she is. Also, I have a question about hygiene. Both of her parents do not make her bathe everyday. I feel especially for a girl, hygiene is very important and that we must clean ourselves everyday. Is that just my western up bringing? What are your thoughts on the hygiene issue?

My man is deployed overseas and we would like to know if anyone makes satellite controlled vibrating panties.

I have been married for little over three years now. Everything about our relationship is awesome. Recently my wife shared a fantasy of hers. She said it turns her on thinking about me giving oral to a guy along with anal sex and him doing to same to me. She does not want a three some or anything like that, she just really wants to watch. Also she has been trying to get me to go down on her after I cum in her, she wants me to try my own cum as well. What is this all about? And were do I go for here? I always tell her that there is nothing I won't do for her, but…

With all the masturbators out there, they all pretty much claim to feel like the real thing. Is there any that REALLY feels like the real thing?

I am a man who is Bi-curious (just actually learned about this fairly recently). I hope this doesn't sound too naive of a question, but I recently bought my first toy and wanted to ask if it’s possible for a guy to get HIV from using it on himself. Even if it’s thoroughly washed with hot soap and water before usage? I ordered the toy from an online store and upon taking it out of the packaging I got a little concerned that the packaging wasn't entirely sealed (thereby making me think of the “environment” of the company which I ordered from, cleanliness, etc). Am I over obsessing too much about this? I'm a little concerned.

Can I ask a question without giving an email address?

Hello, I’m a transgender girl who recently e-mailed another toy store for some advice and they haven’t responded to my question. I’m guessing because I’m transgender and they are biased or because I described how I intended to use the toy. The only way I can expect advice is if the person understands how it is to be used which makes sense to me. When I’m a girl, I’m a girl. Currently I often come home and like to do hands free masturbation like most girls do I’m sure. I’m rather small down there and my method is to tuck myself down while wearing pantyhose and use the pantyhose to hold a silver bullet on the sweet spot of my (what I call clitty) on the underside of the head. I satisfy my feminine craving this way and can lay back and enjoy it and often have very intense orgasm this way but the only problem is it can sometimes be difficult to keep the bullet where it’s placed. So, what I’d like to know is if you have any recommendations of a toy which I could use which could be used for the same type function but be more reliable to stay put where I said I use it. It has to be small and of the “hands free” nature for me to enjoy. The silver bullet is cylindrical and often wants to slide off. I know they make hands free clitoris stimulators and believe I saw something that has a ring attached to the small vibrator which can possibly hold it on the head. If you have a recommendation for this use I’d appreciate it.

Before we had kids my wife and I experimented with anal sex briefly. After the birth of our first child she developed a hemorrhoid thus making anal very uncomfortable for her. Now both of us would really like to start exploring anal once again. Is there anyway she can rid herself from being uncomfortable?

What is a good toy for a man to use for anal sex?

Hi, I was just wondering how much it will hurt when I go on my honeymoon? I haven’t ever had sex before and nothing has ever been "up there", no fingers, tampons, or anything, and all of my girlfriends tell me that he will really hurt me if he can even get it in the first time at all. What do you think?

My boyfriend has a 7 year old daughter that we have every other weekend. I've noticed on occasion (when she was even 6) that when I was running bath water for her, I would walk in and she would move suddenly from under the running water. I didn't really think anything about it until the other day when I took her to the pool and then she got in the jacuzzi. I was lying out and casually keeping an eye on her and I noticed her kneeling in front of the jet, eyes shut, and the look on her face was, well orgasmic, should I say. Is this normal for a 6/7 yr old to be doing. I don't remember exploring myself until my breast started growing, about 10 or 11 yrs old. I also don't remember my own daughter doing these things. Could it be something she saw her older half-sister do, (10 yrs. older than her and sexually active from the age of 14) and decided to try it? Of course and liked the sensation. Are we going to have a sensually/sexually active child on our hands? I mentioned it to my boyfriend, what I saw, and he just about wigged out on me. I had to keep him from freaking out on me that his "little girl" is growing up. One of us still goes in and washes her hair for her, because it is long. I've told him she is now getting to old for him to be doing things like that for her, society looks down on single dad caring for their daughters. Anyway, I just am unsure of how to proceed. I grew up in a strictly no talking about sex family. My parents showed affection in front of us, by kissing and holding hands, but heaven forbid you talk about sex. I didn't even masturbate until I met my boyfriend now and I was 44 yrs. old. I never used a vibrator or anything. But I am a very sensual and tactile person. I love the feel of the warm sun on my nipples, etc. And I was very open with my children and discussed everything with them which they had questions. I'm not shocked by this, but I am surprised because of how young she is. Also, I have a question about hygiene. Both of her parents do not make her bathe everyday. I feel especially for a girl, hygiene is very important and that we must clean ourselves everyday. Is that just my western up bringing? What are your thoughts on the hygiene issue?

I purchase a penis pump recently and my question is how I use. Is my penis suppose to be erect or soft.

If you don't know what your G-spot is or where it is how are you suppose to guide your partner or for that fact enjoy it. Is every woman's G-spot in a different place? WHAT IS THE G-SPOT??? HELP? Really want to know so I can enjoy sex more thoroughly!

I assume a medical procedure by an urologist cleans out the penis for a better stream when urination. What causes that and sounds painful?

Is there away to make ones cum taste sweeter and less salty for his gal? Also, how do you produce a larger amount? I am a diabetic and I love having sex but have some problems with it being too salty tasting and very little amount at a time. I would appreciate any help in this if possible as I love my GF very much and would like to make her happy. I always make her cum but myself it takes like 4 hrs before I cum and then only a little is there a reason for this? Is this normal?

What is a good toy for a man to use for anal sex?

Are there dildo’s that are intended for sucking or to use for deep throating practice? I can’t find any anywhere but I know somebody has them. Can you help me locate them? Also which realistic dildo seems the most real and which ones have a pump and/or suction cup to hold it in place.

My wife shows no interest whatsoever in oral sex. Giving or receiving. I've explained why it’s important to me and how special it would be but she's just not interested in doing this for me. We've gone on websites about it, talked about it, and I've explained in a very stress-less environment that I'm being patient. Her reply is she'll work on it. 2 years later nothing. We found out about a week ago that a couple we know in their late 60's are all about it, books about it and toys to boot… still no progress. I shower and groom, etc but not the slightest progress. I know she's done it before because she's told me how she used to do it in cars when she was younger. How in the hell do I not take this personal? A couple of years ago she asked me what I wanted for my birthday. I told her a blowjob. That’s all, nothing else. She threw me a party which was cool and I thought it meant good news for me but not a single sign or mention of it. What’s frustrating as hell is I could get a blowjob in about a half hour at any given time but I want to remain faithful. HELP!!

Is there a way to change the flavor of you vaginal area? I use to have a sweet one, or so I was told, but my boyfriend now has told me that it has a strong (not pungent) odor and taste. What can I do?

Is there away to make ones cum taste sweeter and less salty for his gal? Also, how do you produce a larger amount? I am a diabetic and I love having sex but have some problems with it being too salty tasting and very little amount at a time. I would appreciate any help in this if possible as I love my GF very much and would like to make her happy. I always make her cum but myself it takes like 4 hrs before I cum and then only a little is there a reason for this? Is this normal?

After years of mutual enjoyment my wife and I are more curious than ever about female ejaculation or "spraying". We discovered this together (JOY!) twelve years ago while we were still dating. Where does the liquid come from in the body? Obviously not urine- where is the "reservoir" so to speak? Can all women do this and just aren't aware or open to it? Any insight would be greatly enjoyed!

Hi, I was just wondering how much it will hurt when I go on my honeymoon? I haven’t ever had sex before and nothing has ever been "up there", no fingers, tampons, or anything, and all of my girlfriends tell me that he will really hurt me if he can even get it in the first time at all. What do you think?

Hey there I was wondering about some after care tips for anal sex. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we tried anal sex last night. We used lots of lube, and he was very turned on he did cum in me. Now I am wondering if it’s going to do anything to me. I have been to the bathroom a few times and it feels as if it’s cleaning itself all out. I was just wondering because I am getting mixed answers from every website I visit.... And when is the safe to try anal again after your first time? Can you go right back into it if there is no pain… or should you wait in case you need inside healing?

Before we had kids my wife and I experimented with anal sex briefly. After the birth of our first child she developed a hemorrhoid thus making anal very uncomfortable for her. Now both of us would really like to start exploring anal once again. Is there anyway she can rid herself from being uncomfortable?

Hi, I was just wondering how much it will hurt when I go on my honeymoon? I haven’t ever had sex before and nothing has ever been "up there", no fingers, tampons, or anything, and all of my girlfriends tell me that he will really hurt me if he can even get it in the first time at all. What do you think?

Are there dildo’s that are intended for sucking or to use for deep throating practice? I can’t find any anywhere but I know somebody has them. Can you help me locate them? Also which realistic dildo seems the most real and which ones have a pump and/or suction cup to hold it in place.

What is a good toy for a man to use for anal sex?

I purchase a penis pump recently and my question is how I use. Is my penis suppose to be erect or soft.

After years of mutual enjoyment my wife and I are more curious than ever about female ejaculation or "spraying". We discovered this together (JOY!) twelve years ago while we were still dating. Where does the liquid come from in the body? Obviously not urine- where is the "reservoir" so to speak? Can all women do this and just aren't aware or open to it? Any insight would be greatly enjoyed!

Before we had kids my wife and I experimented with anal sex briefly. After the birth of our first child she developed a hemorrhoid thus making anal very uncomfortable for her. Now both of us would really like to start exploring anal once again. Is there anyway she can rid herself from being uncomfortable?

Hi, I was just wondering how much it will hurt when I go on my honeymoon? I haven’t ever had sex before and nothing has ever been "up there", no fingers, tampons, or anything, and all of my girlfriends tell me that he will really hurt me if he can even get it in the first time at all. What do you think?