Wife's Hemorrhoid Problem
Question: Before we had kids my wife and I experimented with anal sex briefly. After the birth of our first child she developed a hemorrhoid thus making anal very uncomfortable for her. Now both of us would really like to start exploring anal once again. Is there anyway she can rid herself from being uncomfortable?
Answer: Has she seen a doctor about the hemorrhoid issue? The first step would be to have that cleared up; otherwise if she has even the smallest tenderness in her anal area, there is not much that will make her comfortable.
If it is a chronic hemorrhoid problem, you should look at the medications that also offer a numbing sensation to the small affected area. And use plenty of water-based lube to avoid further irritation. It will also help for you to use a condom to minimize the "juices" that will touch the affected area.
The main point is to talk to your wife during the process. If she feels pain, stop, adjust and see what feels good for her. It may help to re-introduce anal play by using fingers and small anal toys first before introducing the penis.
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