Transgender Toy Play
Question: Hello, I’m a transgender girl who recently e-mailed another toy store for some advice and they haven’t responded to my question. I’m guessing because I’m transgender and they are biased or because I described how I intended to use the toy. The only way I can expect advice is if the person understands how it is to be used which makes sense to me.
When I’m a girl, I’m a girl. Currently I often come home and like to do hands free masturbation like most girls do I’m sure. I’m rather small down there and my method is to tuck myself down while wearing pantyhose and use the pantyhose to hold a silver bullet on the sweet spot of my (what I call clitty) on the underside of the head. I satisfy my feminine craving this way and can lay back and enjoy it and often have very intense orgasm this way but the only problem is it can sometimes be difficult to keep the bullet where it’s placed.
So, what I’d like to know is if you have any recommendations of a toy which I could use which could be used for the same type function but be more reliable to stay put where I said I use it. It has to be small and of the “hands free” nature for me to enjoy. The silver bullet is cylindrical and often wants to slide off.
I know they make hands free clitoris stimulators and believe I saw something that has a ring attached to the small vibrator which can possibly hold it on the head.
If you have a recommendation for this use I’d appreciate it.
Answer: We agree that the bullets are slippery and have significant movement - they constantly need to be controlled.
Here are our suggestions:
Our top recommendation is the LayaSpot http://www.xandria.com/sex-toys/vibrators/small-vibrators/layaspot-id-1680.html
This vibrator is powerful and contoured and should stay in place and provide you with the hands-free support you require.
You may also try a butterfly strap on. This is geared to stimulate with out penetration and the straps help to keep the product in place. The 3rd item listed is the Silicone Snuggler - it basically has a pouch so the bullet will stay in place.
http://www.xandria.com/sex-toys/vibrators/premium-vibrators/remote-control-butterfly-id-135.html
http://www.xandria.com/sex-toys/strap-on/strap-on-vibrators/strap-on-mini-butterfly-id-2656.html
http://www.xandria.com/sex-toys/strap-on/strap-on-vibrators/silicone-snuggler-id-2718.html
You also mention that you are open to using the rings. The following rings will allow you to position them so that they do not move and the area you want to stimulate is easily access:
http://www.xandria.com/sex-toys/toys-for-men/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/figure-8-stimulator-id-205.html
http://www.xandria.com/sex-toys/toys-for-men/cock-rings/vibrating-cock-rings/ring-of-xtasy-id-1646.html
Hope we were helpful.
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