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Question: Hi, I get sexually turned on when I see two women have sex, but I love my future husband. We are getting married this year and I love him so much I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. My question is why do I get turned when I see two women have sex? I get all wet and I want to masturbate when I see it. Does this make me bisexual or a lesbian? I’ve never experienced sexual contact with another woman and cannot picture having sex with another woman. Although I love my husband to be very much I get turned on when I see the women get wet. I don't know why I get wet. Even explaining it to you is getting me wet. I'm really confused. I even get turned when I see the women wear thong underwear. Is it wrong to masturbate while watching lesbian sex or is it ok.

Answer: Most people have fantasies and are aroused by situations, objects and people that they would not ever consider for sex. This is why it is a fantasy. Some people are aroused by scents, some by physical pain - you are in the group of women (and men) who are turned on by watching two women have sex with each other. There are many straight women who have no interest in sex with other women who are aroused by seeing images of naked women or thinking of naked women - this does not make them Lesbian. You are just using "forbidden fruit" (so to speak) to spark your sexual fantasies and desires. This is perfectly normal. Don't feel guilty - let your imagination take you to even better orgasms. You might find that if you shared this with your future husband, it may open up a whole new area for you both. Talking about it may make it possible that you could even watch lesbian movies together, and then satisfy you sexual desires with each other.