How Big Is Too Big?
Question: My wife and I have been married for almost 35 years. We do have good sex. We have the Jack Rabbit, but don't use it much due to; my wife says it’s too noisy. When we have sex she gets well lubricated and I get the feeling that she would really enjoy a bigger dildo.
I am 5.5" in length. I suggested that we get an 8 " realistic dildo. She feels that most of them are too large. What is too large? Is there any size that most women can not accept? I believe that she does not want one of these sizes because she might like it and does not want me to feel inadequate.
How would you suggest I convince her to get a larger than me dildo?
Answer: You can surprise her with a new dildo and massage oils to test the water. There may be other reasons why she does not want a larger dildo. Keep the communications flowing and she may tell you. You can browse the site together and pick out toys you each want to try - that may be a great avenue to open her to trying other (maybe) larger products.
The woman's body is very flexible - but each woman is different. For example very few women can "take" our Jelly Kong.
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