Dreaming Of Anal
Question: I am wondering about something. Earlier in my life I would never had anything to do with anal play, but by some freak mistake while making love with my wife, she was caressing me all over and happened to caress my butt crack.
I was amazed how sensitive it was and how good that felt to me. Why all of a sudden does this appeal to me? And why do I think about her inserting her finger or a toy there now?
Answer: Hard to say why you've warmed up to anal play recently, but you have. And you're not alone. Many people have the same trajectory, aversion to anal for a long time, then a sudden interest in it.
Here's why your wife's butt caresses feel good. The buttocks, butt crack, and anus are richly endowed with touch-sensitive nerves. When they're stimulated, it feels good. In addition, the muscles that fire during orgasm form a figure-8 around the genitals (penis or clitoris) and the anus. Anal massage or fingering stimulates these nerves and produces pleasure.
If you take things a bit further, here are some tips:
Shower before sex and wash your anal area with soap and water.
Keep some lube handy. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating. A commercial lube helps keep things comfortable.Xandria sells several, including a product specially formulated for anal play, Anal Lube.
If you enjoy being anally fingered, you might consider playing with a butt plug. Xandria offers them in several sizes. They all have flared bases, so they can’t possible get lost inside you.
Finally, the ultimate anal play involves a strap-on dildo. You may never want to try that. But if you do, Xandria sells several strap-ons.
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