Question: Does a penis pump actually make a man's penis get longer? Yes/ No.
Answer: A penis pump produces modest size increase--but it's temporary. Once you disengage from the pump, your penis reverts to its normal size. There is no way to permanently enlarge a penis. But you can make the most of what you've got. Here's how:
You can't get any more than God gave you. All the pills and potions you see on the Internet are frauds. None of them can enlarge your penis. But you can make the most of what you've got, and look better hung than you do now.
For the record, the average flaccid penis is about three inches long, the average erection, about six. But averages mean that some penises are larger and some are smaller. Smaller flaccid penises grow more to full erection, larger ones grow less. And most men notice that when their penises are flaccid, they can be any of several sizes--sometimes smaller, other times larger, and at times, very well hung.
One reason why most heterosexual men feel their penises are (quote) too small (unquote) is that other than their own, the only ones they’ve seen really up close are those in x-media. The men in porn are selected for their enormous endowments. They REALLY ARE bigger than the vast majority of men. As a result, the average man is justified in believing he has one of the smallest penises he’s ever seen. But that doesn’t mean you’re sexually inadequate, far from it. Perhaps you’ve heard the old saying: It’s not the meat, it’s the motion. Or it’s not the pen, it’s the penmanship. The size of your penis is just one aspect of your talents as a lover. And even if you have a large penis it’s still just a small aspect of how good a lover you are in bed.
Flaccid or erect, penis size depends on the amount of blood in the penis’ spongy central tissues. The more blood, the better hung you look when soft, and the larger and firmer your erection when hard. So the real question is: How can you keep as much blood as possible in your penis? Three ways: Stay relaxed, stay warm, and work to create a loving, supportive relationship.
* Stay relaxed. When you feel relaxed, blood tends to pool in your central body, including the penis, and you look well hung. But when you’re stressed or anxious about anything--including penis size--you may trigger what scientists call the "fight-or-flight" reflex. This reflex sends blood away from the central body (and your penis) and out to the limbs for self-defense or escape. In other words, the fight-or-flight reflex leaves less blood available to the penis. So stay relaxed, and you’ll look better hung when flaccid, and your erections will be all they can be.
* Stay warmth. Warm temperatures are relaxing, so it helps keep blood in the central body, and in the penis. That’s why many men notice that they look better hung after a shower than before one. Warmth is particularly important to the size of the scrotum. The scrotum hangs outside the body to keep the testicles cool. The best temperature for sperm production is a few degrees below normal body temperature. When you feel cold--like in a drafty high school locker room--the scrotum hugs your body to keep the testicles warm, and it looks small. But when you feel warm, it hangs lower to keep the testicles cool, and you look better hung. One way to look your best--and to set the mood for great sex--is to take a hot bath or shower with your lover. In addition to the size-enhancing warmth and relaxation, bathing together is great fun, and it reveals your lover in all her naked splendor, which certainly doesn’t hurt your size.
* Nurture your relationship. Being involved in a loving, supportive relationship helps a man feel good about himself. This, in turn, enhances his ability to relax both in and out of bed. That relaxation keeps blood in the central body and penis, adding to his size.
One advantage of a large penis is the ability to penetrate more deeply into the vagina. Some couples really enjoy this. The woman feels completely filled up, and may feel a more intimate connection with the man. Meanwhile, the man feels larger. Some sexual positions facilitate deep penetration. They can help average men feel larger than they really are. You can learn all about this from a video Xandria.com sells, "The Complete Guide to Sexual Positions."
On the other hand, the small proportion of men with larger-than-average penises have to be careful about deep penetration. A large penis can bang into the cervix and hurt the woman. This may come as a shock to men, but some women are afraid of big penises, afraid of getting hurt by them during deep intercourse. For these couples, deep penetration is maybe something to avoid. But before you can either avoid it or embrace it, you have to know which positions facilitate it, hence the value of "The Complete Guide to Sexual Positions."
About penis-enlargers: No mechanical device can permanently enlarge a penis. But for men or couples who enjoy playing with penis size, penis pumps can temporarily stretch a penis and make it look larger. You insert your penis into the pump cylinder; use the hand bulb to evacuate most of the air from it, which creates a partial vacuum around the penis. These conditions stretch the penis somewhat and help coax extra blood into it, making it temporarily fuller and larger. The effect subsides after you remove the pump, but if you're relaxed, you may be able to retain your extra size for a little while, for example, long enough to enjoy intercourse. Penis pumps were originally developed to help impotent men produce erections firm enough to allow intercourse. Their use as sex toys came later. Many research teams have studied the effectiveness of penis pumps for men with impotence caused by such conditions as diabetes and paraplegia. They work reasonably well.
To the best of our knowledge, penis pumps are safe when used as directed. We are unaware of any reports of injury from them. Of course, misuse might cause problems, so follow the directions, and use your pump carefully. If Xandria.com had any doubts about the safety of these devices, we wouldn't sell them. As it is, Xandria.com offers several penis pumps, among them: the Maxi-Pump, Le Pump, The Fireman's Pump, and Robo-Blo.
Then there are cock rings. These rubber or leather rings can make erections a little firmer, and some men believe, a little larger as well. Here's how they work: Erection occurs when the arteries that feed blood into the penis expand, allowing more blood to fill the organ’s spongy central tissues. As the spongy tissues fill, the veins that carry blood out of the penis become somewhat compressed, restricting outflow. The net effect is a blood build-up in the organ, which causes the increase in size and firmness. The arteries that feed the penis run through the center of the organ, so a cock ring doesn’t keep blood out. The veins that carry blood out of the penis run closer to the organ’s outer skin, so a ring restricts outflow a bit more. If you feel that a cock ring helps you look your best, fine. There’s no harm in using one--as long as you don’t make it too tight. Xandria.com sells several.
As for surgery, we don't recommend it. It costs several thousand dollars. Most health insurers don't cover it, so you pay the cost entirely out-of-pocket. And according to the urologists who advise Xandria.com, the result may not live up to the hype. Some operations cut the connective tissue that suspends the penis. You hang longer, but when erect, your penis doesn't stand up. It falls down between your legs. Other procedures inject body fat under the penile skin to increase the organ's girth. But some men wind up with lumpy, deformed-looking penises. On the other hand, if you're really interested in penis-enlarging surgery, ask your doctor for a referral to an Urologist. If the Urologist doesn't perform these operations (many don't), ask for a referral to one who does.
Finally, we'd like to say a few words about women and penis size. Some women prefer big penises, just as some men prefer large breasts. On the other hand, some women prefer smaller penises because they are less likely to trigger gagging during deep-throat oral sex, less likely to bang into the cervix during vaginal intercourse, and less likely to feel uncomfortable during anal intercourse. In our experience, however, women are considerably less fixated on penis size than men are on women's figures. For the vast majority of women, penis size has remarkably little to do with their enjoyment of sex. Quite a few women--up to half, depending on the survey--rarely if ever reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse no matter how large the penis. They need direct clitoral stimulation by hand, tongue, some other body part, or sex toy.
Most women would rather have a lover who is kind, considerate, thoughtful, intelligent, and caring, even if his penis is on the small side, rather than a lover who's a boor hung like a horse.
If you're bothered by self-doubt related to your size and you're involved in a relationship, we suggest you raise the subject with your lover. Sharing such an intimate issue can add to the closeness you feel. Chances are that your honey will say she likes your penis just fine as it is. And that should help you relax about this issue--which increases blood flow into the organ, allowing your penis to be all it can be.
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