Deep Throat With Teeth
Question: I've given great head for years, however I never really deep throated and no one asked me to because I've been great at getting my boyfriends off the way I do it.
My current boyfriend is really into deep throating and I'm having a real problem with it. I can totally control my gag reflex, however his cock is really big in girth and length, and when I push him down my throat, my back teeth rub the
sides of his cock. He really hates that and I've become very self conscious and reluctant to do it because I can’t seem to take him down without doing it. Of course, my self consciousness puts a drag on the mood and he doesn't stay as hard.
I’ve watch porn trying to get it and he's been incredibly patient but I need more help. I'm determined. Thanks.
Answer: Let's start with a bit of history. Deep throating became popular in the early 1970s as a result of the classic porn film Deep Throat. In that movie, the woman's clitoris was located deep in her throat, and she wanted men to deep throat her so SHE could get off. Since then, deep throating has morphed into something MEN want. Usually, the desire to stick it deep does not come from sexual pleasure. The most erotically sensitive part of the penis is the head, and it doesn't get much stimulation from deep throating. The pleasure of deep throating for men is usually more spiritual, the idea that the woman welcomes ALL of him into her mouth, accepts all of him, and is willing to sacrifice some personal comfort to make the man happy.
It sounds like between the size of his penis and the structure of your mouth, there's no way to avoid your teeth scraping the sides of his shaft when you take him deep. So I'm going to suggest a quick fix that involves a bit of subterfuge. I don't know how you feel about tricking him a little, and I don't know how he might feel about this. But this fix would solve your teeth-scraping problem. First, this works best if he doesn't see what's going on. That means his eyes closed, or blindfolded, or he's on his back and you're kneeling over him with your head obscuring his view of your mouth. Place lots of lube on both of your hands and rub your hands together to warm up the lube. Then take the head of his erection in your mouth, not too deep, while gripping his shaft with one or two lubed hands. This way it feels like you're taking him deeper than you really are--and your teeth don't scrape his shaft. I hope this helps.
View All Ask Xandria Questions
Ask Xandria Yourself!
Ask Xandria just wouldn't be all that interesting without questions would it? Guess who we need
to ask the questions -
you! You may either submit your questions via email at
askxandria@xandria.com or
click here
to submit your questions online.