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Can't Make Myself Masturbate

Question: Hi, I am a 38 yr old female, and I can't make myself masturbate, I have a toy but that is not working. I need a woman to make me masturbate. I also was thinking on getting my clit done with a ring and get my tits pierced as well. What do you think I should do?

Answer: If you want to masturbate but are having trouble doing it, I suggest that you consult a sex therapist. They have great success helping women explore their sexuality, masturbate, and learn to have orgasms. To find a sex therapist near you, visit the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) at www.aasect.org. Click the map of the U.S. and Canada, and get a list of all the AASECT-certified sex therapists in your state or province. As for getting your clitoris and nipples pierced, that's up to you. If you decide to go for it, be very careful that the practitioner uses sterilized equipment under hygienic conditions. Then be sure to use plenty of disinfectant for the prescribed amount of time so you don't develop piercing-related infections, which can be painful and debilitating in those places.

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