Amazing Orgasm, Is It Possible?
Question: In the pass I have watched porno where the women would reach such an amazing orgasm that she would squirt out cum from her vagina. Is this possible for all women? How can I achieve this with my wife?
Answer: Some women in porn gush a cup or more of fluid from their vaginas. This is fake. It does not happen in real life. In porn, they use a turkey baster off camera to load the woman's vagina with water, then they turn on the camera, she squeezes her lower abdominal muscles and the fluid shoots out. By the way, the women in porn never have orgasms. They fake them.
Now some women release a small amount of fluid at orgasm--female ejaculation. The amount varies from a few drops to a couple of tablespoons. It's not clear how many women ejaculate. Estimates vary from 10 percent to 50 percent. Personally, I think it's down around 10 percent.
The fluid is not urine. It comes from the paraurethral glands, tiny glands embedded in the vulva surrounding the urethral opening. A good deal of research shows that this fluid is similar to prostate fluid in men, the major component of semen. That's why it's called female ejaculation.
There is no sure way for a woman to learn to produce this fluid. But there is some evidence that vigorous G-spot stimulation helps. The G-spot is an area inside the vagina about 2 inches in from the opening on the front wall (the top if she's on her back). In some--but not all--women, the G-spot is sexually sensitive and pressing on it heightens arousal. However, some women don't enjoy G-spot stimulation. Check in with your lover on this.
It's difficult for a woman to stimulate her own G-spot. But a lover can with a finger. Or the woman can use a special G-spot vibrator or dildo. These toys have curved tips that allow the woman to press the tip into her G-spot.
If your lover enjoys vigorous G-spot stimulation, wait until she is highly aroused, and then press/rub her G-spot. She may ejaculate. However, she may not. It's an individual thing. Either way, she's normal.
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