Am I Desensitized
Question: I have been using a very high-powered, personal back massager to reach orgasms for the past 12 years. I'm thinking about buying a sex toy that I can use during sex with my boyfriend.
Will a regular vibrator provide enough stimulation? Do you think my clitoris is desensitized now? Should I stop using my massager?
Answer: Does using a food processor ruin the arms for manual mixing? No, it just gets the job done faster. The same goes for high-powered massagers and vibrators.
In the vast majority of women, high-power vibrations don't desensitize the clitoris to loving manual touch or oral sex. I suggest you try a vibrator with adjustable controls that regulate the vibration intensity.
You might also use a sexual lubricant, lubes increase genital sensitivity to all forms of touch.
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