All The Way In
Question: My girlfriend and I tried to use the vibrator in her Vagina. The vibrator went in about an inch. It does not go all the way in her vagina. She felt pain at her lips every time I press on them.
How can I make it painless? How do I get it to go all the way in her vagina with a vibrator?
Answer: First, a vibrator should not be used without a lubricant. Lubricate both the toy and the vagina. That makes insertion much more comfortable for the woman. Xandria sells several lubes.
Second, don't you try to insert it until after you've watched very closely as she inserts it into her several times. In porn, the men ram toys in and the women seem to love it. That's fantasy. In real life, many women find insertion uncomfortable, even painful, unless it's very slow and gradual. Best to watch as your girlfriend inserts it into herself so you can learn how she likes that done.
Third, it's possible that the vibrator is too large for her. Try a small model, one with less girth. Xandria sells dozens. I'm sure you can find one that will be comfortable for her and fun for both of you.
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