Blind fold
In erotic power games, it can be fun for both lovers when the dominant partner (the top) blindfolds the submissive partner (the bottom). For the top, tying a blindfold asserts power: I can take sight away from you. For the bottom, accepting a blindfold means erotic surrender: I give you the power to deny me sight. With sight temporarily eliminated, the bottom can also focus more intently on the other erotic senses: touch, taste, smell, and hearing. For both lovers, a blindfold allows creative fantasies of inviting others to watch or join in. (Simulate "others" with dildos or other toys.)
If you're new to erotic power games, blindfolds can be a comfortable introduction. The bottom's hands and feel are not bound so he or she can always feel safe and remove the blindfold if so desired. For more advanced B&D enthusiasts, a blindfold can be used along with other restraints. Scenes involving restraints are best worked out in detail beforehand, with a "stop" signal the bottom can invoke any time he or she feels uncomfortable. The top should honor the stop signal immediately. Because the bottom can invoke the "stop" signal at any time, the irony of bondage is that the submissive partner is actually the one in control. When using restraints, no one should ever feel threatened or get hurt.
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