The Wonderfully Erotic World of Nipple Toys
Author: Michael Castleman, M.A.
Most men love to play with women’s nipples. They love to caress, fondle, roll and suck them. Many women love to be on the receiving end of nipple play—assuming that it’s consensual and gentle. One of the joys of cunnilingus is that the man’s hands are free to caress the woman’s nipples. That’s also one of the joys of doggie style intercourse and a few other positions. And many lovers get turned on by the symbolism of nipple sucking, its allusion to the nurturance of breast-feeding. Some men also enjoy having their nipples caressed and sucked.
If you enjoy nipple play, why not take it to the next erotic level by experimenting with any of the dozen nipple toys Xandria sells?
First a few words about the genesis of nipple toys. They began as BDSM accessories, and are still listed in the Xandria.com catalog under that heading—click Light BDSM and then, to see all nipple toys, click Nipple Toys and Body Jewelry. The original nipple toys were alligator-style clothespins that were used to provide the intense sensation—some call it pain—that many BDSM submissives enjoy. Nipple toys’ connection to BDSM puts some people off. They assume that all nipple toys cause pain, and are simply not into it. It’s fine not to be excited by the intense sensation available through BDSM, but that’s no reason to shun nipple toys. Today’s nipple accessories come in a wide range of styles and can be worn and enjoyed with no discomfort at all.
The Most Comfortable, Least Intense Nipple Toys
If you’re looking for a first nipple toy, one that enhances nipple play but doesn’t involve intense sensation, try Xandria’s Nipple Jewels, String of Pearls, Titalizer, or Cross Your Heart Titalizer. These four toys all feature easily adjustable loops that encircle the nipples. Depending on the type of nipples you have, you may be able to hold them in place with little or no tightening of the loop adjustment at all. And if you need a little tightening to hold them in place, in most cases, only a little tension is necessary.
Nipple Jewels hang independently. They are a lovely form of body jewelry than enhances the visual appeal of the wearer’s nipples and breasts. Nipple Jewels are very lightweight. They exert a little downward pull, but it’s hardly noticeable, and not at all intense.
String of Pearls and the Titalizer attach the breasts to each other, rather like a breast necklace. The String of Pearls looks and feels like, well, a string of pearls. The Titalizer use gold chains. These toys are a little heavier than Nipple Jewels, so they exert a bit more downward pull. But it’s still very gentle. It feels arousing without much intensity. And when the wearer moves, the pearls or chain swing, which enhances the pleasure of wearing these toys and seeing them on a lover.
Check out what customers have said about these toys: “Very erotically sexciting. What a turn-on for me and my husband. I will buy them for my girl friends. A woman shouldn’t be without!”
“Normally my nipples are too sensitive for a great deal of stimulation, but this product [Titalizers] is hot! My lover was rock hard when he saw my breasts!”
“I originally bought these [Cross Your Heart Titalizers] as a silly visual enhancer for my lover, but once I put them on, I discovered I loved them. I feel sexy and horny the entire time I have them on!”
For A Little More Intensity
If you want a bit more intensity of nipple pressure and a little more weight for greater downward pull, try Xandria’s Crystal Nipple Clamps, Nipple Tension Riders, Traditional Nipple Pleasers, or Tweezers. All of these toys feature padded contacts for maximum comfort. The pads prevent any digging into sensitive nipple tissue and are made of soft, pliable plastic so they allow a margin for error as you tighten the adjustable tension controls.
The controls not only allow comfortable tension, they can also be adjusted during lovemaking. Many people want only a little tension to begin with. But as the sex heats up, they find themselves wanting more intensity. That’s easily accomplished with just a little turn of the screw, or in the case of the Tweezers, a little slide of the ring.
Here’s what one customer wrote: “Nipple clamps opened a new door for me. The freedom to give yourself the experience they provide is truly liberating. And the variety of sensations is just not to be missed.”
The Most Intensity
If modest nipple pressure leaves you yearning for additional intensity—and more of a BDSM experience—then try Xandria’s Pulsating Nipple Clamps or Vibrating Nipple Clips. These toys are vibrators that focus on the nipples. They feature padded contacts for comfort, but the real action is the little bullet than produces very arousing vibrations, and takes the experience of nipple toys to a whole new level. The intensity of the vibrations can be easily adjusted. Nipple vibes weigh considerably more than other nipple toys, so you may not want to use them sitting up or standing. They might feel just a little too heavy. In that case, use these toys lying on your back. On the other hand, you might like the extra weight. It’s up to you.
Nipple Rings and Chrome-Plated Nipple Clamps also provide dramatic intensity. The Rings are not adjustable. They stay on by tension. They look like you’ve had your nipples pierced—but no piercing is involved.
One customer had this to say about Nipple Rings: “Excellent. They cause a little pain but it’s pleasurable pain. The first time I put them on, I had a great orgasm. When my husband saw them, he was so turned on that he gave me another.”
Your Little Secret
One of the marvelous things about nipple toys is that many of them can be worn discreetly under clothing. Only you and your lover need to know. Or don’t tell your lover—and then surprise him (or her).
Like all Xandria products, when it comes to our extensive collection of nipple toys, your satisfaction is guaranteed.
If the only things touching your nipples are your lover’s fingers and lips, it might be time to discover the wonderful world of nipple toys, and the amazing sensations they provide.