Can I Get Addicted to Sex Toys?
Author: Rose Aubourg
Most everyone has seen the classic Sex and the City Episode where Charlotte gets her first vibrator. After the first easy orgasm with her new toy, she no longer wants to date or leave the house - she just wants to be with her vibrator. She was not addicted to sex - just the orgasms that trusty little vibrator provided.
Can Someone Get Addicted To Sex Toys? In short, everyone can get addicted to something. If someone does develop a sex addiction there are programs provided to help both males and females work through their sex addiction.
Sex toys are not addictive. People get addicted to the pleasure provided, whether that pleasure is with another person or a sex toy. Once someone has found that special technique or product that ALWAYS hits the spot – they are very reluctant to let it go. Like any addict, they just want it to continue and in some cases want it more and more!
You have to remember, sex toys are specifically designed to get where some tongues, fingers and penis just cannot maneuver. G-Spot dildos and vibrators are made to stimulate the G-Spot each time – no fumbling, no fuss.
You are also in control with a sex toy. If the toy is not in the right place, YOU adjust it. You control the stroke, the depth, the vibration and the amount of time you need to achieve an orgasm. Toys never get tired, complain – and you control every step. No one knows your body better than you. You are guiding the sex toys to all your pleasure points and you know immediately what feels good and what doesn’t and you make all the decisions.
Can Sex Toys Make Me A Better Lover? Sex toys help you understand what makes your body respond. Talk to your partner; let him know what you want. With the vibrator, you control every movement. When you are with your partner you have to communicate. Don’t be afraid, he will not be angry. The more he knows about how to please you, the better each experience is going to be for the both of you.
To help him understand what areas he should focus, you might want to bring you favorite toy into play. This is a good way to have him participate and learn more about your needs and likes. The toy will be especially handy if there is a spot he just cannot reach on his own, one you really want. Letting him use the toy on you gives him a sense of pleasure and the feeling that he is the cause of your orgasm.
Men, Should You Worry? If your woman always wants to use a vibrator or other sex toy (especially without you) – Don't worry – it means she has an active libido. That is a good thing because many women do not, which causes serious conflicts in many relationships. Finally, several studies suggest that compared with women who don't masturbate those who do enjoy sex more, are more orgasmic, and feel more satisfied with their relationships. These women are more satisfied with their bodies and know their bodies.
Am I a Sex Addict? There are several well documented cases of celebrities being treated for sex addiction. And, yes, there are treatments. If you think you might have a sex addiction, contact a local therapist or ask your physician for a recommendation. There are several web sites which provide information of sex addiction, notably www.sexaa.org.